Set the stage for your very special event by creating invitations that are uniquely your very own. Now that you have set a date, time, and you know where your having your wedding and your reception, it's time to start thinking about your wedding invitations. There are several different ways to find your wedding invitations. You could browse for them online, order a variety of catalogues, Goto and check out a stationary store, visit a printer that does wedding invitations, or go the do it yourself wedding invitation route.
For the brides and grooms who have decided to have do it youself wedding invitations, by designing their own unique wedding invitations, there are some good choices. If you feel comfortable with a word processing program, and you have a printer at home, it is very easy to order wedding invitation stationary and do the printing yourself. Printing them at home also gives you the freedom to choose which papers, fonts and wording you like, that will make them unique to your wedding.
Whatever type you choose, keep in mind that the wedding invitation will be the first indicator of what your wedding will be like. Meaning, that as a wedding guest, the wedding invitation is the first indication to what type of wedding they will be attending.

For example, if you’re having a tropical destination wedding barefoot on the beach in Hawaii, you probably would not send out formal, engraved invitations because it would not fit the mood/theme of your wedding. You should be sure that the ones you choose, should speak to your wedding style, and indicate the level of formality your wedding will have.
When you start looking for wedding invitations, it’s very easy to get confused with the printing lingo. Here’s a quick look at the types of printing options you may encounter:
EngravingThis is the most expensive and formal printing option. Paper is stamped from the back by metal plates and the letters rise up from the paper as they are printed.
ThermographyUsing a press that heats ink, thermography also creates a raised-letter effect similar to engraving, but the process is less expensive.
LetterpressThis is a stamping die that is pressed against the paper and gives an antique look.
Offset printingAlso known as flat printing, this is the most widely used form of printing. This is where the letters are not raised at all (this would be the effect if you printed them at home.) One big plus of using this type of printing is that it allows you to use multiple colors of ink.
Wedding Invitation WordingNow when you're ready to order your wedding invitations, there can be a lot of pressure for them to be perfect, because you truly only have one chance to get the wording for your wedding invitation right.
Your wedding invitations are the first hint to your wedding's overall theme, and the initial indicator to wedding guests of what your wedding will be like. They should be complimentary with your wedding theme and above all, your wedding invitation wording should be done correctly.
Why are there so many ways to invite guests to your wedding? Generally, wedding invitations are worded differently depending on a couple of things. A change in wording comes from different parties paying for the wedding. Wording for a wedding invitation is also based on the specific situation of the family, which means that wording is different if parents are divorced, remarried, deceased, and so on.
When you endeavor to order your wedding invitations, you'll find that there are many ways to word them. Complicated wedding invitation etiquette and sticky family situations can make wedding invitation wording more complicated than it is.
But don't worry, you don't really need to know everything about invitation etiquette just to send out your wedding invitations. With a combination of helpful tips on wedding invitations and the correct wedding invitation wording, you'll have everything you need to send out perfect wedding invitations without any errors or problems.
Traditional Wedding InvitationMr. and Mrs. John Kelly
Respectfully request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Grace Ann
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If the Bride's Parents and Groom's Parents Both Sponsor the WeddingMr. and Mrs. John Kelly
And
Mr. and Mrs. Conrad Hilton
Respectfully request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their children
Miss Grace Kelly
And
Mr. William Joseph Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If Bride's Mother and Stepfather Sponsor the WeddingMr. and Mrs. Frank Sinatra
Respectfully request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of her daughter
Grace Kelly (last name optional)
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If one of the Bride's Parents is WidowedMrs. John Kelly
Respectfully requests the honor of your presence
At the marriage of her daughter
Grace Ann
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If Bride and Groom Sponsor the Wedding on Their OwnThe honor of your presence is requested
At the marriage of
Miss Grace Kelly
And Mr. William Joseph Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If the Bride's Parents are Divorced (not Remarried) and Both Sponsor the Wedding Mrs. Barbara Streisand
And
Mr. John Kelly
Respectfully request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Grace Ann
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If the Bride's Guardian is not Her Mother or Father and Guardian Sponsors WeddingMrs. Julie Andrews Kelly
Respectfully requests the honor of your presence
At the marriage of her granddaughter
Grace Ann
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
If the Bride's Parents are Divorced and Remarried and Both Sponsor the Wedding Mrs. Frank Sinatra
And
Mr. John Kelly
Respectfully request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Grace Ann
To
William Lincoln
On Sunday the third of June
At six o'clock
Cinderella's Castle
Hollywood, California
Even though some sticky situations can make it more complex, figuring out the right words for your wedding invitations can be simple. If you use the above examples, you can easily get wedding invitations that observe the correct wedding invitation etiquette.
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